you cant actually say it as a crap

There are thousands of people who get out of their profession because they are afraid of challenges those they imagine could sprout in the future and they feel they cant bare them, so they.. they quit, in belief that they could survive without those challenges, but unfortunately later they realize if they don’t take challenges now they won’t progress, here everything gets messed up and now or in the future they blame their selves for not exposing these challenges because now they are in such a phase where instead of having challenges and a will to face them, they cant because they are afraid of losing. So better have a habit of losing since the beginning so at least now or later when you feel capable of doing something you will be able to inspire yourself with confidence.

Let’s go through this. A guy was willing to join the army forces, but he didn’t have the physical capacity, but he had some mental and behavioural attitude which makes him capable to stand for it, so one day he goes to the paramilitary force to check out his capabilities and feel the passion to live in some different world. On the very first day he had to go through a round of selection process, the first was just to be confident, and I tell you how they check your confidence. You are an element in the crowd of hundred and the army people want only 30 of them so it’s your luck or their tendency to include you. "Okay guys, those who think that they can’t do this they shall quit now, or later ruin you selves. They propose the crowd of 100 a challenge that now you are going to run for 50 kilometres as a test of your stamina and they mean it if the race starts, the next command goes, for this much of distance once you are in, you can’t quit at any cost! And they mean what they say; if you fall down in between you will get two hard strokes of a very flexible bamboo cane on your asses, you got next few seconds either get up or get ready for 2 more…. The choice is yours either get ready for 50 Km run or if you fall down be in position to bare 2 bamboo marks on your butt else quit now. After this announcement and consequences you decide to stay in or safely go out of this mob and enjoy your holidays in McD with your loved ones. Aaaah it’s practically difficult to make a decision in 5 seconds time, later this announcement 50% mob starts shivering. Even from those 50%, 25% will get out of that deal and take their way back to cottage. Then the commandant says “Okay then you are those courageous guys who are ready for the challenge, if anybody quits later then I will have to take revenge of what my wife hasn’t given me the last night” ohhhh….that was harsh, but considerable and really practical may be you could have offered the same :). Then the remaining 25% quits. ..The rest are still there, but later commandant says to the escaped mob to leave the ground for the sake of their lack of confidence and offers a coffee break to the rest selected group of confident candidates. Be confident for what you do and willing to do and mistakes are your true friends as they teach you and you never learn instead of them, but make sure they will not be in your best friends' league.